A Social Experiment in Disguise (*Long Post Warning*)
Hey @Everyone - Today, I ran a little experiment with my son, Otto. And the results? Nothing short of magic.
But first—some context.
What is Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)?
PDA is a profile on the autism spectrum where individuals experience an intense need to resist everyday demands and expectations. These aren’t just “stubborn” behaviors. The resistance often comes from a deep-rooted anxiety or need for control—especially when things feel uncertain.
Here are a few hallmarks of PDA:
So much of this in my family. Anyone else get completely tingly with joy when someone cancels plans on them? It's my favorite feeling. We always just called it FOBI (fear of being included). But in all seriousness, duly noted and will try to be cognizant of it for both Otto and Pippa 💗